This woman that goes to my church didnt accept my friend request on facebook??? :(?

She might not even know what it is. Many people dont even know that you can do than, if she has a bunch of friends, then you know that she can do it. I would just ask her if she got your request and does she want to be friends. Some people dont want to mix 2 lives, work and play, religion and work, religion and play, than sort of thing. Just ask, dont ume!